Here are some clear cut signs:

Jumpy: We’re usually very naturally protective of our privacy, but if you’re noticing that your partner is a little extra on guard when receiving a call or text it just might be a red flag.

Disappearing Act: If your partner is constantly travelling or unavailable at an unhealthy rate. This may be a red flag.

Weird Friends: Friends will be loyal to their friend before they are ever loyal to their friend’s significant other. If you notice a change in your partner’s friends, this could be an indication that something is afoot.

Sex less – If the sex-drive decreases, period, there is a clear sign of trouble in the relationship.

New Friend Gush – Have they recently been gushing about a friend of the opposite sex?

Of course, you could take into consideration that you may very well be overreacting. However, if your gut is telling you something you should stick to it. Gut feelings are almost always correct.  If your relationship is unraveling and you want to fix it, run down the checklist.

Are you:

-          Listening

-          Intimate

-          Laughing

-          Allowing Appropriate Space

-          Giving

-          Loyal