Don't Hold Your Breath

Why won’t your guy commit? Well, if he’s anything like the following traits, don’t hold your breath.

Damaged – He’s been hurt before. Blah blah blah. He’s “swearing off relationships”. Why aren’t you running yet?

Chronic worker – Unless you work with him (which would be so inappropriate), there is a huge chance that he doesn’t have much time for you. He cannot commit to you if he has already committed to his job. Think about it.

Poor – He isn’t financially stable, so you can put your hopes for a stable relationship right back on the shelf. The two of you just might be in two different places right now.

Immature – We all know someone like this. He’s mature as far as his age goes, but at heart he’s still in 7th grade. He’s not emotionally ready to handle anything serious and mature.

Mr. Perfect – Does he talk about himself too much? Is he super superficial? He’s already committed to himself. Run.

These are the obvious examples. If you’re still wondering why your guy won’t commit, it could just be that he’s just not that into you.